Dr. Montessori considered obedience to be a natural human characteristic that develops over time through three different stages. Many adults during Dr. Montessori’s time thought that children were born naturally disobedient, but she argued that “confusion springs from the belief that children’s natural actions are bound to be disorderly and even violent” (Montessori, 2007a, p. 230). In contrast to this belief, Dr. Montessori discovered that young children disobeyed for very specific reasons related directly to the laws of nature and must acquire the ability to obey in association with the development of the will.
Aspects of Obedience
There are three aspects to the development of obedience: hormic impulse, consciousness and the development of the will. The first aspect, horme, is considered to be an impulse that calls the child to action. The child acts unconsciously and impulsively according to the laws of nature. Dr. Montessori (2007a) wrote that the will “proceeds from a great universal power (horme), and that this universal force is not physical, but is the force of life itself in the process of evolution” (p. 230).